Guy Tips

When it comes to dating guys, I am a very, very meticulous person. I go off of my intuition the very first time I see them. If something doesn't feel right, I won't waste my time. (And no. I don't go off first "looks." I go off of the feeling I get from them. I've just... Always done this.) I also have self respect and don't appreciate when a guy thinks he can treat me a certain way. Obviously, it is different with every girl, but with this girl, you are going to have to take it slow. To know what kind of girl I am, because I know there are similar ones like me, I will give you a little summary:

I don't like stupid people and I enjoy intelligent conversations. Education is very important to me and I take very seriously. Family is also very important to me. I am not outgoing and don't try to draw extra attention to myself, but I have confidence in who I am. I have self respect and want to be treated with chivalry = I want to be treated like a lady. The treatment of a lady, in my book, is not the worth of your job: It's your dignity and how you treat mine: with kindness and respect.

Now, I can see where guys would forget how to act: young women nowadays do not respect themselves or their bodies. But, this doesn't mean that you guys should take advantage of it. In fact, I find it more attractive when a guy can respect himself by respecting women, even if they are a little "loose."

Also, the lovely technology we have nowadays turns nothing into "something" almost instantaneously. We have lost conversation and how to be in touch with our social skills. Maybe girls are just bored. Maybe that's why we see so many who don't care with what we see. And, it's very easy to do, frightening though it is. And maybe I sound like a hypocrite since I keep this online blogsite, but hey, it keeps me sane. To vent and let my thoughts explore the world in my own little corner of the world wide web. But, first and foremost, I do not and will not allow myself to ever disrespect myself.

I can't give up and say chivalry has died.There are too many people in this world and I would just sound pathetic. And I most definitely won't give up on my own sisters. We all need to remember how to treat ourselves before we expect someone else to treat us the same. You have to teach someone how to treat you. Case closed.

-Louise